That was a quote from Nelson today on one of the episodes of The Simpsons that I watched. It is such a great line. I really don't like Wisconsin, bascially because the Packers are from there, but there are other reasons too. Such as my brother witnessing one male rape another male then having to tell the male that was raped that he got raped because said male was passed out drunk. Have to love fraternities (more on fraternities in a later post, my experience didn't go to well with them).
Anyways back to Wisconsin for no real reason I don't like the state, I don't hate it, just some weird sense of disliking towards it much like my irrational disliking of Costa Rica. So I guess in the ever ironical world I live in, the only girls with whom I have gone on dates with have been from Wisconsin. This also includes the girl I am going on a date with this Saturday.
Yep this Saturday Furry is going on a date. I am taking her out to dinner because I "lost" a bet. I bet that the Bears would be the Pack in week 17 and even gave her 7 points. She still feels bad that she won. I am torn I am glad I get to take her out, yet my hatred for the Packers won't let me take joy in the fact that they brought me something good.
So the last girl I dated left me because I went to slow. This included after the first date when we were leaving I was standing at her car saying goodbye and she had to initiate a hug because I had no idea what to do. On the second date we cuddled up and watched a movie, well half through the movie I asked her if I could put my arm around her, then we cuddled, then I did nothing else. No kiss. The third date she demanded a kiss, it went horribly bad, she broke it off. I don't blame her, I blame my ex-girlfriend who completely ruined any sense with what I am supposed to do with a girl. With the ex we began way too fast yet with boundaries and then after 3 months with the same boundaries still in place she goes off and fucks some random guy.
So that brings me to what the hell am I supposed to do or expect after this date? I know most people will say just do what feels right, but I am trying to explain that I have no idea what feels right. I am completely lost. Any hints/tips/suggestions? The Furry would appreciate any advice. And no Mona I am not taking her out to an expensive steak dinner.
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Steak dinners are very telling.
It's pretty easy to tell if a girl expects something (easy for me to say). If you walk her to her car, door, whatever and she lingers around making seemingly random conversation, she is waiting for a kiss. Even just a polite, quick one would be good (on the lips, not the cheek). I'm pretty sure we're at the age where a hug alone would seem awkward.
If it's a hurried ending and there's no talk of doing it again. Just walk away.
I'll try to think of more pointers later. I have a birthday dinner to attend to.
Thanks for the birthday wishes!
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